September 26, 2013

What’s Your Story?

“Every life story begins and ends exactly the same — the difference is what you do in between.”

Your Story - 100PedalsUsually one of the first questions I ask people when I meet them is “what’s your story?”  I find the simplicity of the question allows anyone I am talking with to share with me whatever they want – business, personal, a little of both.  I open the door, invite them to share and I they to choose the topic.  I have the pleasure of listening and learning.

Each of us has a story.  Actually, there are two stories.  The story you tell yourself and others while you are here on this earth and the stories others tell long after you are gone.

Every life story has three parts: birth, life, death.  There is nothing really different in the beginning or the end. Each story begins and end exactly the same.  There may be a special uniqueness about how we entered or left this world; but, that is only a small part of the story and it isn’t what most people will spend much time reflecting on.

How you live your life — who you loved, touched, inspired — is your story.  

Years ago, my college swim coach reminded me that being the superstar athlete on the team was not going to be what people remembered.  What they were going to remember was the experience of the interaction and how my life evolved following my college days.  I didn’t get it at the time because I was too immature and self-absorbed about my superior athleticism (or so I thought) to grasp the power in the lesson.

I get it now.  Each of us is living a story.  It is the story of our life — who we are, how we lived, and what we did with the gifts we were given.  I am not interested in creating or building a legacy because that is not the real purpose our existence.  We are not here to build monuments as a testimony to our greatness.

I am interested in and committed to sharing the power of my gifts, experiences and love to those who need me and them most.  It my quest that long after I am gone the gifts I shared are passed on to others in the same spirit of passion, joy and love.

That’s my story.  What’s yours?

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About Dave Cooke

Dave Cooke is a dad on a mission. His mission is to help parents get control of their lives over the powerful, destructive influences of a child's addiction. As the father of a son in a ten year heroin battle, Dave knows all to well the challenges parents and families face. He also knows there is a way to find peace in the chaos. It is his mission to help parents discover their path to a healthier, balanced life even if a child's active addiction is still part of their daily journey.